Tag: intentions
Dangerous Interpretations
I listened to part of Weekend Edition this past Sunday on NPR and heard the letters-to-the-editor segment. Some of the letters referenced a story last weekend about PTSD in military personnel. The letters criticized someone interviewed who used the term, “former veterans.” On one hand, the term “former veterans” can be somewhat amusing, a slip [...]
Posted: July 26th, 2010 under Everyday Communication, Social Commentary.
Tags: criticize, intentions, linguistic, listening, motivations
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Name Calling
What child hasn’t been scolded for calling someone names? They are admonished: That’s not nice. . . . We don’t call others names. . . . Tell him you’re sorry for calling him names. We use these and other familiar phrases to try to teach our children how to behave properly and respectfully in a [...]
Posted: July 17th, 2010 under Couples, Everyday Communication, Kids, Parenting, Social Commentary.
Tags: courtesy, family, intentions, respect, trust
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Where Does the Story Begin?
I could be glib and say, “at the beginning,” but that’s the point. Where is the beginning of any story? I spend a lot of time listening to stories that begin with, “Here’s what happened . . .” When two (or more) people are involved, there are usually related but different accounts. Of course, most [...]
Posted: February 23rd, 2010 under Couples, Everyday Communication, Stories.
Tags: context, defensiveness, expectations, intentions, mediation, motivations, problem-solving
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