Tag: emotional validation
Empathy and Sympathy
Professional opera singers have voice coaches and professional baseball players have batting coaches. What they tend to emphasize are the fundamentals, and so it is with practicing good communication. I spend a good deal of time in the office bringing couples back to the fundamentals. Effective communication is not a fancy process. It requires discipline [...]
Posted: November 8th, 2010 under Couples, Everyday Communication, Parenting.
Tags: connection, Couples, emotional validation, empathy, fundamentals, sympathy, trust, validation
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The Devil’s Advocate
“Look at it this way…,” or “There are other possibilities…,” or “Look at it from the other side…” Those with a strong logical component to their communication style often play the devil’s advocate. This technique helps them analyze a situation, discover the truth, and solve problems. Their intentions are good and their willingness to help [...]
Posted: July 10th, 2010 under Couples, Everyday Communication, Stories.
Tags: argument, devil's advocate, disconnect, emotional validation, intimate relationships, logical, perception
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The Thinking Out Loud blog is a natural extension of Bob Keteyian's book "Do You Know What I Mean?".